One way to spice up your sex life is using sex toys, either alone or together with your partner. And a good way to get in the mood for this is to choose these toys together. Sometimes, people are a bit intimidated by sex toys: they think that when somebody has a lot of sex toys, they themselves are no longer needed. This is nonsense; we all like variation in our life and our sex lives, and sex toys can help with that.
Don’t worry: good lovers will never become redundant, no matter how good the sex toys get! When thinking about sex toys, most people think about vibrators, but vibrators are only a small fraction of the sex toys that are available.
Check the Internet to see what is available, you will be amazed! This is the best way to do it:
Shopping for sex toys online
The most private way to order sex toys is to browse an online sex shop. Here you can find all the information you need. If the shop is located in another country to yours, make sure they deliver to your country and also look out for the shipping charges to make sure that they are reasonable for you go spending your money.
Discuss with your partner what you have tried or would like to try. The simple act of doing a bit of brainstorming can help produce some great ideas for you to the kick the kinkiness levels up a notch I the bedroom. When you browse an online sex shop, it is more than likely that you will discover products that you will never have seen before. Find something that new that intrigues you. A bit of experimentation will do your sex life no harm at all.
How to make your partner comfortable
If neither of you have experimented with sex toys before, then this is a very important point to consider. You need to encourage your partner to start using a sex toy on themselves, by themselves, before they engage with you. Once they feel comfortable using one alone, chances are that they will be happier doing so with you. Some great options for beginner’s sex toys include rabbit vibrators or male masturbators. Vibrators, for example, are fantastic tools for masturbation and once a woman is confident about her sexual needs and her sexual triggers, adding a vibrator or any other sex toy into the mix during partner sex will be a much smoother transition.