9 Sex Tips For Men

9 Sex Tips All Men Should Follow

1. Experiment with all erogenous zones. Very well, the breasts and the pubic area are obvious go-to hot zones but they get a lot hotter when stimulated simultaneously with other areas. Try kissing and gently stroking her neck, back, stomach and inner thighs.

2. Communicate with her. This doesn’t mean that you need to break into a dramatic running commentary while you get down to business, but breaking the silence or, indeed, moaning every now and again with some arousing words can help mix things up a bit. Now and again you should mention why you love doing what you are doing to her or ask her what she wants you to do next.

3. Slow and steady wins the race. For women, good sex doesn’t just happen out of the blue. These things take time because women are more ’emotional’ lovers. Setting aside 10 to 15 minutes prior to sex cuddling, kissing and holding your partner will be much more successful at getting her turned on than running into frustration because you’ve spent five minutes touching an unresponsive clitoris.

4. However, both of you should finish said race! As previously mentioned, it takes time for women to reach orgasm. Men however, are much quicker. So if you reach orgasm first, no matter how exhausted you may be, you are responsible for helping her over the finish line. Your best tactic? Go south with your mouth. This leads us onto our next point.

5. Give her oral sex. Your partner can tell when you flinch or seem hesitant about going down on her. Fair enough, it might not be your favourite thing to do, but it’s the best way for most women to reach orgasm, so it’s worth your while learning to enjoy it. Hey, love is a two-way street, right?

6. Be well groomed. You might be more inclined to indulge your lover in some oral action when you know she’s just washed. The same can be applied to you. Women are much, much more turned on by a well groomed man. Make sure you’ve showered, shaven, brushed your teeth and smell good!

7. Compliment her on her looks. Make sure you mean it, though. In general, women don’t love parading around naked. For most women, the very second their clothes come off they will begin to feel vulnerable and sensitive. When she undresses, tell her how much you are turned on by her body.

8. It’s the little things that count. Take note of certain tricks that can make your sexual encounters go much more swimmingly. A great idea would be to simply slide a pillow under her bottom while you enter her. This will bring her clitoris and g-spot into better contact with you.

9. You don’t need to deep thrust. Why? Well, according to evidence, the outer third of the vagina is the most sensitive, so deep thrusting is not the be all and end all – at least not for her anyway! A much better course of action would be to try ‘dipping’ your member in and out of her vagina.

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How Do I Find Time To Have Sex?

“Sex life? What sex life?” I hear you claim. You’re a parent and life is so hectic that you hardly have time to think about your very own sexual requirements, let alone do anything to satisfy them. It can appear like your own needs do not matter, it’s the children that have top priority and you have to do whatever it takes to care for them. Do not be fooled, your needs are essential and ignoring them isn’t helpful for anyone, not you, not your partner and also definitely not your children. You may not be able to do all the things you did before you settled down, life has changed but you can still enjoy yourself a little!

So how do you dedicate energy and time for sex when you’re up to your eyes with work and other commitments? It takes a little bit more planning as well as initiative than in the past but you have to assure yourself that it can happen and it is definitely worth it.

So how do you have more sex? Okay, exactly how do you have any sex?

  1. Make it a priority and it will happen. Feeding the kids rapidly becomes a priority when you have nagging children at your feet. Don’t give up until you get what you need.
  2. Find a time that works. It may be early in the morning before the youngsters get up, it may be quickly after they’ve gone to bed ignoring the dishes as well as the washing and cleaning up, it may be during the day while the children are watching a video. You have to make time for each other.
  3. Do something that make you think about sex. It can be tough to get in the right mood at times, so try watching a hot movie, read erotic fiction together, write your partner a sexy note, think back to a time when you had great sex and relive just how good it felt.
  4. Take a shower with each other. There is something about getting naked as well as wet together that can be very erotic.
  5. Expect interruptions but don’t be put off. Interrupted and feel the moment is gone? Let it be a diversion to increase your desire for sex, not extinguish it.
  6. Do not wait till you get into bed to initiate sex. When you’ve been with each other a while it’s easy to get stuck in the same old habits, like falling into a deep sleep when your head touches the pillow. It’s in these instances that you need to make a change in order to kickstart your sex life. Sex can happen anywhere so use the spaces you have.
  7. Perhaps the most important point of all – do not give up! Find a way to make it happen. Your needs are important too, and you’ll be all the better for it when they’ve been met.
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Is Sex Really Good For You?

We often hear the phrase banded around that “sex is healthy”, but is it really? (Let’s assume that you’re practicing safe sex, first of all.) Will having sex X times a week actually do me any good? Let’s delve into some facts.

Over time, it has been proven that sexual frustration in general is not entirely a mental thing. Numerous researches verified this with the findings that sexually active couples respond much better to stressful scenarios compared with others that avoid sex. Couples who have meaningful sex are typically found to be a lot more productive in all aspects of life. Furthermore, folks who are sexually active with just one partner are proven to have a more favourable, happier disposition in life as compared to those that have not been intimate in a long time.

Many experts likewise explain that regular sex with a significant other was associated with lesser diastolic blood pressure. There are much clinical problems wherein sex is found to have actually reduced or healed. This is due to the fact that endorphins are released during sex, the exact same endorphins that are accountable for alleviating pain in the body. Research studies additionally showed that migraines, arthritis discomfort and PMS syptoms can be reduced when oxytocin is released. Oxytocin is released naturally and surges when engaging in sexual activity or just curling up with your lover.

As for men, regular sex is known to reduce the risk of prostate cancer later on. For the ladies, some studies are now recommending that sex may lower the threat of breast cancer threat. So, by having regular sex, women are doing themselves a favour as well. Sex also boosts your levels of the antibody immuniglobin A (lgA). Making love one or two times a week boosts your lgA levels and can help you fight colds and infections combat horrible colds as well as infections. So it’s all good!

Oxytocin loosens up the body and promotes rest. Sleep is incredibly essential for good health, reducing weight, anxiety management as well as blood pressure. Boosts in levels of the hormone DHEA repairs tissues, keeps your skin healthy and balanced, boosts cognitive function and even relieves depressive symptoms. Increased blood circulation also does wonders for the skin and boosts in testosterone and oestrogen likewise keep us youthful. Testosterone reinforces bones and muscles and keeps the heart healthy while oestrogen shields women against cardiovascular disease.

Every relationship needs to be grown and also tended to make sure that it prospers. The exact same can be said about sexual partnerships. You should look at spending the time and energy that is needed to maintain a healthy and balanced sexual relationship. Sex is good for you after all!